Why is texting one of the greatest tools for flirting and building attraction?

Well, let’s think about what’s involved in creating attraction with someone in the real world. Your smile, smell, confidence, words, timing, clothes, breath, witty remarks, on-the-spot flirting, and the list goes on and on. These are what I call attraction triggers. In the real world, you have to account for every attraction trigger or else you will be unsuccessful in your dating. So if you want to make your dating life easier, you need to start eliminating as many of these attraction triggers as you can. The less attraction triggers you have to deal with the better your chances of being successful in creating attraction and intrigue. Text messaging does just that… it eliminates the majority of the attraction triggers. The only attraction triggers you need to account for are words and timing, and that’s it. If you text the right words at the right time, you can expect to triple or double your success in dating. I’ve seen this happen hundreds of times.

Flirting is the key to getting the ball rolling in the right direction. It’s the unnecessary, but crucial part in building attraction. One of your main purposes when texting is to flirt. I’m going to share with you the 3 most important laws that you must follow whenever you are flirting in your flirty text messages.

Law #1 – Building Suspense – the 10-minute rule

Building suspense is easy and it’s incredibly effective. It amplifies the sexual tension in your flirty text messages. I usually teach this by saying, "never text a women within ten minutes of a vulnerable message." If she sends a text messages that makes her vulnerable such as, "ya I’ll come over, what time?" or "what are you doing tonight?" you will see better results if you keep her in this uneasy (vulnerable) position for 10 minutes before letting her know everything is cool.

Sending an instant text messages when a deal is being closed is basically saying, "yes, yes, yes please hang out with me!" If you place a pause before closing the deal, then you are just giving a signal that you are important or you had to weigh your options before choosing. Whatever the interpretation is, there is going to be a stronger sexual connection between you two.

Law #2 – Keep it light, fun and un-needy

You’re probably very fond of the stressful feeling of trying to send the right text message to someone you like?!? You’ve also probably sent text messages and immediately after sending them, you thought of something that would have been better to send, right? That’s because you cared way too much about what you were sending and it came across in your message. If you relax, and truly understand that there are plenty of fish in the sea, then you will send light and fun messages that don’t say, "please write back, i need you!!!"

Law #3 – Send Flirty Text Messages NOT Friendship Text Messages

Words are the most powerful influence in anyone’s life. It determines where you stand in any relationship and how strong that relationship is going to be. Now, I can’t just give you a bunch of words to text because it would take a lot more than just an article to explain everything (However, if you want a ton of proven text messages that work you should definitely get the eBook "The Ultimate Texting Guide." It teaches you exactly what to text to be successful with women.)

I can give you some flirting tips to get you moving in the right direction and help you construct better flirty text messages. Start by always keeping in mind: send messages that build attraction not friendship. This is the area where most men fail. It comes from a history of sending a ton of text messages to friends and few to the women they want. This basically puts a man in friendship auto pilot and the women you want end up getting your classic messages that make her into a friend instead of something more. Here’s the best way to start breaking out of this auto pilot system: be aware of the feeling in your message. Meaning, women respond to how you make them feel. You create the feeling. Is it flirty or is it friendship? You must be able to discern between the two.

Here are two text messages – one friendly and one flirty. See if you can discern between the two. The scenario: a woman texted two guys and invited them to go shopping with her. Guy #1: “Ya I would love to go shopping with you. I got to be back in two hours, are you ok with that?” Guy #2: “I would go shopping with you, but I don’t want you to be tempted to make out with me in the dressing room.” Yes, I’m sure you guessed example #2 was flirty. Now the key is to be able to send these flirty text messages at the right time. When done correctly, this is definitely an area where I see men triple or double their success with women. Remember, we don’t get on a roller coaster because it’s boring if you’re boring, women won’t respond well to you for the same reason. Keep it fun and flirty and stay away from the friendly text messages.

Teens and grownups tend to handle things differently in certain situations, and managing breakups is certainly no exception. Some of the greatest advice that can be volunteered to teenagers coping with breakups can be found on the web, because there are teens all over the world that are discovering the lessons of love the hard way, by losing the people they cared about to breakups.

If you are a teen and you have been newly separated from your boyfriend or your girlfriend, then you are probably feeling heartbroken right now, which is plainly expected no matter how old you are. Luckily, you have plenty of living ahead of you, and you will meet a surprising amount of wooers in your life that are more suitable for you. Everyone goes through with love and loss, and while it is unpleasant to begin so young, you can and will move forward from this time of heartbreak.

Here is some introductory advice for teens dealing with breakups and the related heartbreak.

- Do not try to get back together with your ex right away. The best way to your ex that you are worth getting back together with is to play it cool and let him or her think that you’re getting along just fine without them. Play it cool by playing like you’re having fun and hanging out with people, and that you do not need your ex to enjoy yourself.

- The initial period of time that passes after a breakup can be tough, and you might feel lured to get back with your ex, but you need to let your emotions simmer first so as to come off as calm and cool rather than needy and despairing. If you act urgently, this will actually greatly lessen your ability to get things going with your ex again in the future.

- The safest plan to pursue is to stop continually calling, texting and trying to see your ex. Move on, or at least give the appearance that you are moving on. Play hard to get. Play it cool. Let your ex acquire the needy and desperate feelings rather than demonstrating them yourself.

- Get out of the house and visit other people. Spend time with friends, meet new people, and have fun. Let your ex see that you are enjoying fun and getting along fine. Don’t be scared to flirt a little.

This will work wonders for your self esteem and your damaged feelings, and will create a little bit of jealousy in your ex. Let your ex simmer for a while, and you will begin looking much more attractive to him or her in no time at all.

However, a word of precaution with this particular word of advice, for teens coping with breakups; don’t exaggerate the "jealousy factor" as it can easily boomerang on you.

- Take things slowly. Even if your purpose is to get things working with your ex, the breakup is going to have produced residual feelings of heartbreak, so you need to heal your heart before you strike up any relationship, ex or not.

To total up this advice for teenage love problems, use your common sense and keep your emotions under control. By doing so you will see that time will be your best friend as your heart heals itself.

Once the holidays or her birthday is behind you, guys, the pressure to make your partner feel special is over for at least a year. Right? Wrong, Wrong, Wrong! Martians think of it like this: If your wife or girlfriend only had sex with you once a year, would that be enough? Probably not! Ladies don’t want to be made to feel special just once per year. It’s important to make her feel romanced all year long. Romance inspires a woman to want to be more sexual.
Ladies, on the other hand, give the guys a break. Most men think of romance differently than women do. It doesn’t necessarily come as naturally to men as it does for women. But keep in mind that most men want to make their partners happy. They may need for you to communicate your needs to them more directly throughout the year. Try these tips from MarsVenus.com to increase your weekly romance and you’ll be smiling all year long!
1. The biggest killer of romance is not enough time. At the end of a busy day you wind up in the same bed and comment, “Gee, when did you get here?” If Publisher’s Clearing House called and said your million-dollar check was ready, you’d make the time to pick it up. Make the time to make your relationship worth a million dollars.
2. Eat dinner together as often as you can. Couples who eat together create a ritual of talking and connecting over a meal. This frees up the rest of the evening for other romantic interludes.
3. The work week is full of unexpected plans. Remember when trying to add some spice that it needs to be easy, or else you’ll abandon your plans at the first roadblock. Keep it simple!
4. Turn off the TV!
5. Our readers tell us that women love a man with a plan. Plan a dinner, a trip to an evening art exhibit or even dinner at home. And give her plenty of notice because romantic feelings grow for women when they have something to look forward to.
6. Light candles and play romantic music … even if you’re not able to be intimate. This signals to your partner that you are thinking of them in a romantic way.
7. If you have kids, spend the few hours after they have gone to bed together talking about your day. Pour a glass of wine, sit on the couch and catch up.
8. Making time to have sex during the week can be difficult. Make a point to hug and kiss each other often when you’re too busy for sex.
9. Create a ritual of talking about your day together. You bring your partner closer when you share what you did for the 10 hours you were apart. This should not be a book report of your day, but rather a time of connecting your two worlds.
10. Establish a regular date night. This can be a time where you go out together, or stay home. Alternate plans, perhaps one week you plan it and the next your partner does. Keep in mind that for the date to be romantic, you don’t need to spend a lot of money. A romantic evening for many couples is as simple as a bowl of popcorn and their favorite movie. The point is that you plan time together. And try to do it without interruptions. Turn off the TV, radio and any other distraction. Romantic time is private time together — interruptions inhibit intimacy.
Remember: Romance blossoms when both halves of the couple put in time and effort to show each other how they feel. It doesn’t have to be difficult and it doesn’t have to happen every day, but couples who put forth the effort have happier romances to show for it.

For all those times you stood by me
For all the truth that you made me see
For all the joy you brought to my life
For all the wrong that you made right
For every dream you made come true
For all the love I found in you
I’ll be forever thankful baby
You’re the one who held me up
Never let me fall
You’re the one who saw me through through it all

You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn’t speak
You were my eyes when I couldn’t see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn’t reach
You gave me faith ‘coz you believed
I’m everything I am
Because you loved me

You gave me wings and made me fly
You touched my hand I could touch the sky
I lost my faith, you gave it back to me
You said no star was out of reach
You stood by me and I stood tall
I had your love I had it all
I’m grateful for each day you gave me
Maybe I don’t know that much
But I know this much is true
I was blessed because I was loved by you

You were always there for me
The tender wind that carried me
A light in the dark shining your love into my life
You’ve been my inspiration
Through the lies you were the truth
My world is a better place because of you

I LOVE YOU,BLAZE!!!!!!!!!!!